Category: LGBTQ+ rights

In late 2022, Chris Beck, formerly known as Kristen Beck, made headlines when he announced that he was detransitioning. A former US Navy SEAL, Beck had undergone gender transition in the early 2010s, seeking to live as a woman after decades of internal struggle. His decision to detransition shocked many in the transgender community and beyond, raising questions about the complexities of gender identity and the emotional and psychological challenges that can accompany such profound personal decisions.

I don’t have any issue with those who decide to transition to either their original assigned gender or to a different gender role. As Valdes and MacKinnon (2023) point out, the process of transitioning is an intensely personal journey and should be respected as such. However, it is equally important to recognize and validate the experiences of those who decide to detransition. They, too, have the right to be heard and understood without judgment. Detransitioning is often met with skepticism and even hostility, especially in a society that sometimes views gender transition as a one-way path. But as Beck’s story reveals, gender identity is not always a linear progression, and the journey can be full of unexpected twists.

Chris Beck’s military career, including his time as a Navy SEAL, was intense and demanding. He faced physical and emotional challenges that tested his limits. Yet, Beck has stated that his experience with transitioning and later detransitioning was more difficult, more “hellish” than any mission he faced in combat. For Beck, the decision to transition was driven by a deep-seated sense of misalignment with his assigned gender. However, after transitioning, he began to realize that his struggles with identity went far beyond gender alone. As he explains, detransitioning wasn’t an easy choice—it was one born of a painful journey to truly understand himself.

For many detransitioners, there is a combination of external and internal factors that lead to the decision to return to their assigned gender. In Beck’s case, he has discussed feeling pressure to conform to the transgender community’s expectations of what it meant to be a woman. He described being caught between societal forces, medical professionals, and his own feelings of discomfort with how he was expected to look and behave. In a society that often demands conformity, the struggle to reconcile one’s true identity with external expectations can feel like an insurmountable task.

The emotional and psychological toll of detransitioning is profound. Beck has been candid about his struggle with depression and loneliness during this period. He is not alone in feeling this way—many who detransition face similar challenges, often feeling isolated both within the transgender community and the wider world. The decision to detransition is not made lightly; it often involves navigating a complex web of emotional, physical, and social consequences. As Valdes and MacKinnon (2023) suggest, it is crucial for society to take detransitioners seriously, acknowledging the pain they experience while also understanding that their stories are valid.

Despite the struggles that came with detransitioning, Beck emphasizes that his decision was one of self-discovery. He is not rejecting the trans community or invalidating the experiences of others who transition. Rather, he is seeking to align himself with a sense of identity that feels truer to who he is. The narrative of detransitioning is one that is too often ignored or silenced, but it is important to listen with compassion and open-mindedness to those who find themselves on this path.

The journey of gender identity is never simple, and it is crucial to acknowledge that for some, the decision to transition or detransition can be fraught with confusion, pain, and even regret. As we continue to evolve our understanding of gender, it is essential that we honor and support all people—whether they transition, detransition, or remain in the gender they were assigned at birth. As Beck’s story shows, the process of finding oneself can take many forms, and the road is not always straightforward.

The personal story of Chris Beck’s detransition serves as a powerful reminder that the journey of gender identity is deeply individual. For some, it may be more hellish than being a Navy SEAL, but it is a journey that deserves respect and understanding. Just as those who transition are valid, so too are those who decide to detransition. As a society, we must strive to provide space for all voices in the gender discourse, without judgment or dismissal, but with empathy and support.

References

Valdes, D., & MacKinnon, K. (2023, January 18). Take Detransitioners Seriously. The Atlantic. https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2023/01/detransition-transgender-nonbinary-gender-affirming-care/672745/

Harassment of Transgender Women by the Kansas City Police Ignored by the HRC

By Katherine Walter

On December 24, 2014

In LGBTQ+ rights

A few days ago the New York Daily News had an article about the Kansas City police department posting an anti-transgender on Twitter. The KC police have a tweet-along where they would tweet their daily activities. This isn’t uncommon and many police departments have drive-alongs or virtual tweet-alongs like the KC police department. There was a series of tweets where police officers tweeted that they stopped to talk to a “possible prostitute”. Again, nothing unusual, many police departments like to harass sex workers, or those they expect to be sex workers. I personally don’t think the time and resources should be spent harassing someone who is trying to earn a living. As they were reporting their discussion of the nature of her work and telling her to get a different occupation, they found out she was a transgender woman they then said “she was … a man” and caller her a him/her. It was all very degrading of the police officers to misgender her in such a manner. She is in fact, a woman, not a man. It seemed to me that the Kansas City police department needs some sensitivity training when it comes to dealing with the transgender community.

Yet, what really got to me about the article in the New York Daily News was the very last paragraph. They stated that the Human Rights Campaign called Kansas City, Missouri a “beacon of hope”. The Kansas City Public Media went on to report that the Human Rights Campaign gave the city a perfect score of 100 for two years in a row in their Municipal Equality Index. What a joke. As tweeter Wick Trick tweeted,the Kansas City policy department have harassed transgender women in this manner in the past. I found an article from GLADD from the 2012 Transgender Day of Remembrance that supports this. A transgender woman shared her experience of police harassment in the article.

During September of this year, Human Rights Campaign president Chad Griffin gave the keynote speech at the Southern Comfort Conference where he apologized to the transgender community for their lack of interest in issues that affect transgender men and women. It was a good speech, but I want to hear him put those words into actions. How can the city of Kansas City, Missouri receive a perfect score in the HRC Municipal Equality Index when the city’s police department harass transgender women? Not only that, but getting that mark two years in a row. These indexes that HRC puts out for companies and municipalities are a joke and only useful for gay white men.

You can talk the talk, Mister Griffin, but you are going to have to more importantly walk the walk. It is time for HRC to stop doing what is politically correct and do what is morally and ethically correct. The HRC turned their back on the transgender community when they had to “take the T out of LGBT” for the 2011 Employment Non-Discrimination Act (HR 1397) for political reasons. It is time to put the T back in not just for ENDA but for everything, including the indexes that the HRC publishes every year.