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Month: December 2024

Faithful to the Rams Since Childhood

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On December 16, 2024

In Los Angeles Rams

When I think back to 1980, a year filled with iconic cultural moments and personal milestones, one event stands out vividly in my memory: Super Bowl XIV. On that day, January 20, 1980, the Los Angeles Rams squared off against the Pittsburgh Steelers in a showdown that cemented my lifelong fandom for the Rams.

I was nine years old at the time and didn’t know too much about the game itself, but it was thrilling to watch. The Rams entered the Super Bowl as the underdogs, facing off against a dynasty. The Steelers, led by Terry Bradshaw, were going for their fourth championship in six years. Meanwhile, the Rams had clawed their way to the big game for the first time in franchise history, showcasing grit and determination. Their resilience mirrored something in me—a belief that with heart and hard work, anything was possible.

That game was a rollercoaster of emotions. I remember watching Vince Ferragamo, the Rams’ quarterback, defy expectations with his poise and precision. There was a moment in the third quarter when it felt like the Rams might actually pull it off. Ferragamo connected with Billy Waddy for a 50-yard pass, setting up a touchdown that put the Rams ahead. My heart soared. For those fleeting moments, it seemed as if the impossible was within reach.

But as the fourth quarter unfolded, the Steelers’ experience and star power took over. Lynn Swann and John Stallworth made spectacular plays, and the Rams’ defense, which had fought valiantly, couldn’t hold off Bradshaw and his offense forever. The final score, 31-19, didn’t tell the whole story. The Rams had played with courage and passion, and their underdog spirit had won me over completely.

As a Rams fan living in Chicagoland, my devotion to the team has always set me apart. In a region dominated by Bears fans, I’ve proudly worn my Rams gear and cheered them on through thick and thin. The 1980s were an especially intriguing era to follow the team. Although the Rams didn’t make it back to the Super Bowl during that decade, they were consistently competitive, making the playoffs nearly every year under head coach John Robinson.

I admired players like Eric Dickerson, whose electrifying runs made him one of the greatest running backs of all time. His 1984 season, when he set the single-season rushing record with 2,105 yards, remains one of the most remarkable individual performances in NFL history. The Rams’ defense, nicknamed the “Fearsome Foursome” in earlier eras, continued to be a force, anchored by players like Jack Youngblood and Nolan Cromwell.

Despite their success, the Rams often found themselves just short of the ultimate prize. Heartbreaking playoff losses to teams like the Chicago Bears and the San Francisco 49ers defined much of the decade. Yet, their persistence and ability to rebuild year after year only deepened my admiration for the team. Even from afar, I felt a connection to their determination and grit, traits that resonated with me as I navigated life in the Midwest.

When the team moved to St. Louis in 1995, I was excited about the opportunity to have them closer geographically. While they were based in St. Louis, I made it a point to attend at least one game every season. Those trips were special—a chance to see my team in person and connect with other fans. Watching the Rams grow into a powerhouse during the late 1990s was exhilarating. The 1999 season, when they earned the nickname “The Greatest Show on Turf,” was nothing short of magical. Led by Kurt Warner, Marshall Faulk, and Isaac Bruce, the Rams had one of the most explosive offenses in NFL history. Their Super Bowl XXXIV victory over the Tennessee Titans was unforgettable, especially that final defensive stand that sealed the win.

Even during the lean years that followed, my loyalty to the team never wavered. The sense of community I felt attending games in St. Louis was unmatched, and those moments remain some of my favorite memories as a fan.

Their move back to LA in 2016 changed things for me logistically, but my passion for the team remains as strong as ever. It is my hope to one day see a game at their current stadium, SoFi Stadium, and experience the energy of the Rams’ home crowd once again.

Today, I look back on that day in 1980 with gratitude. Super Bowl XIV wasn’t just the beginning of my love for the Rams; it was the start of a lifelong relationship with football, a sport that has brought me community, connection, and countless memories. The Rams taught me that even in defeat, there is honor in giving your all and leaving it all on the field. And for that, I’ll always be grateful.

Embracing My Identity as a Sex-Positive Transfeminist

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On December 14, 2024

In feminism

As a transgender woman, my journey of self-discovery and affirmation has been deeply intertwined with my understanding of sexuality, identity, and autonomy. I identify as a sex-positive transfeminist, which means I believe in celebrating the full range of human experience, embracing sexual expression, and challenging the societal norms that seek to limit or shame it.

Being sex-positive is about more than just being open to diverse sexual orientations and practices. It’s about rejecting the stigma that surrounds certain aspects of sexuality and embracing a philosophy of consent, respect, and autonomy. As a transgender woman, I’ve had to navigate not only societal expectations of femininity and gender but also the layers of shame and misconceptions about my body, my desires, and my identity. Transgender women, in particular, are often stigmatized as either hypersexual or as objects of fetish, but being a sex-positive transfeminist means rejecting these harmful stereotypes and celebrating my sexuality as a multifaceted and natural part of who I am.

Kink-Friendly and Embracing Diverse Sexual Expression

As part of my sex-positive approach, I am also kink-friendly. I believe that kink and BDSM practices, when based on mutual consent, communication, and respect, are just as valid and fulfilling as any other form of sexual expression. In fact, the kink community has provided me with a space to embrace my desires, challenge social taboos, and engage in deep, meaningful exploration of power dynamics and intimacy. Being kink-friendly means acknowledging that people have diverse desires and fantasies, and those desires are valid as long as they are consensual and respectful of everyone involved.

For me, this means fully accepting and celebrating all aspects of my sexuality without shame or guilt. There is no one-size-fits-all approach to sexual expression, and I firmly believe that everyone deserves the freedom to explore their desires in ways that are both safe and affirming.

Writing Erotica: An Outlet for Creative and Sexual Expression

Another important aspect of my life is my work as an erotica writer, which I pursue under a pen name. Through my writing, I’ve been able to explore the complexities of desire, identity, and power dynamics in a way that aligns with my own experiences and fantasies. My work is known within certain communities on the internet, where it has garnered attention for its raw, unapologetic exploration of sex and intimacy. Writing under a pen name allows me to separate my public persona from my private creative expression, but it also gives me the freedom to engage with readers and communities who appreciate erotic literature that pushes boundaries, explores kink, and challenges societal views on sexuality.

The act of writing erotica is, for me, a form of empowerment. It allows me to reclaim my sexuality in a way that is both creative and personal, while also providing an opportunity to engage with others who share similar interests. It’s a space where I can express myself freely, without judgment, and where I can challenge the taboos that often surround topics of sex and desire.

Pro-Sex Worker and Advocacy for Decriminalization

As part of my broader belief in sex-positivity and autonomy, I am also pro-sex worker and firmly believe that prostitution should be decriminalized. Sex work, when practiced consensually and safely, is a valid and legitimate form of labor, and the criminalization of sex work only serves to harm those who engage in it. By decriminalizing prostitution, we can ensure that sex workers have access to legal protections, safety, and healthcare, and can live their lives without the constant fear of legal repercussions or stigmatization.

Transgender people, particularly trans women, are disproportionately affected by the criminalization of sex work. Many transgender individuals face discrimination and marginalization in the job market, leaving sex work as one of the few viable options for survival. By decriminalizing prostitution, we would not only be improving the lives of sex workers, but also dismantling the social stigma and criminalization that disproportionately harms marginalized communities.

Sex workers, like all individuals, deserve to be treated with dignity and respect, free from criminal penalties. It’s time for society to recognize sex work as work, and to protect those who choose this path with the same legal rights and protections afforded to any other worker.

Challenging Stigma and Celebrating Autonomy

As a sex-positive transfeminist, my goal is to create a world where people of all genders, orientations, and identities can embrace their sexualities without fear of judgment or discrimination. I advocate for spaces that are inclusive, respectful, and open to all forms of consensual expression, whether that means engaging in kink, embracing non-traditional relationships, or simply living authentically as one’s true self.

Sexuality is a deeply personal and often transformative aspect of human life. For transgender individuals, it can be an especially challenging terrain to navigate. But by embracing a sex-positive mindset and fostering a transfeminist perspective, I believe we can create more inclusive, affirming spaces for people to explore their identities and desires. It’s not just about personal liberation—it’s about contributing to a broader cultural shift where all people, regardless of gender or background, can live authentically and celebrate their sexuality without shame.

In embracing sex-positivity, kink, erotic writing, and advocacy for sex workers’ rights, I’ve found a sense of freedom and empowerment that has transformed my journey. And I’m proud to share this part of my identity with others, hoping to encourage a more inclusive, respectful, and open-minded world.

The Impact of Older Men on Teenage Pregnancy

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On December 13, 2024

In feminism

Teenage pregnancy, particularly when it involves older men, reveals deep gender and racial inequalities that entrench cycles of disadvantage for young girls. Research has shown that between 20% and 36% of teenage pregnancies result from relationships with men several years older (Boden, Fergusson, & Horwood, 2010; Manlove, Papillo, & Ikramullah, 2004). These pregnancies reflect power imbalances, where young girls—particularly those from ethnic minority backgrounds—are coerced or manipulated into sexual relationships. The overturn of Roe v. Wade and the growing restrictions on abortion access exacerbate this issue, leaving these vulnerable populations, especially ethnic minority girls, at even greater risk. Moreover, the lack of strong policies addressing older men who impregnate preteen girls further highlights the need for comprehensive reform.

Older Men and Teenage Pregnancy: Power and Coercion

The involvement of older men in teenage pregnancies must be understood within the context of gendered and racialized power dynamics. Relationships between older men and young girls are often characterized by significant age gaps and coercive power dynamics. These young girls, especially those from marginalized communities, are particularly vulnerable to such relationships due to factors such as limited emotional and financial support, socioeconomic instability, and cultural pressures that restrict their autonomy.

Research by Manlove et al. (2004) found that approximately 25% of teenage pregnancies stemmed from relationships with men at least five years older than the girl. This issue is more pronounced in ethnic minority communities, where young girls face additional barriers, such as systemic racism, limited access to education, and inadequate healthcare. These power imbalances make it harder for young girls to resist exploitation or make informed decisions about their reproductive health, especially when manipulated by older men.

The Overturn of Roe v. Wade and the Impact on Minority Girls

The Supreme Court’s 2022 decision to overturn Roe v. Wade and return the regulation of abortion to individual states has had profound consequences, especially for young women from marginalized communities. Many states now have restrictive or outright bans on abortion, leaving young girls—particularly those who become pregnant as a result of coercion or relationships with older men—without options. These legal restrictions disproportionately affect ethnic minority girls, who already face substantial barriers to healthcare access.

For these girls, abortion access is further complicated by geographic and financial barriers, as well as parental consent or notification requirements. In states with strict abortion laws, the lack of safe and legal abortion services means that pregnant minors may be forced to carry a pregnancy to term, even if they are ill-prepared emotionally, financially, or socially. This further reinforces cycles of disadvantage, denying these young women the ability to make informed decisions about their futures and exacerbating systemic inequalities (Guttmacher Institute, 2022).

Weak Policies Around Older Men and Preteen Pregnancy

A significant aspect of the problem is the weak policies surrounding older men who impregnate underage girls, particularly preteen girls. Although many states have laws that criminalize sex with minors, these laws are often poorly enforced, and older men who engage in sexual relationships with young girls may face lenient penalties or no consequences at all. This failure to adequately address these situations leaves young girls vulnerable to further exploitation.

For example, many sexual abuse laws fail to adequately consider the unique vulnerabilities of girls in ethnic minority communities, where cultural, social, and economic pressures may prevent them from seeking help or reporting abuse. Even when older men are held accountable, the penalties may be insufficient to deter harmful behaviors or protect young girls from future exploitation (Lammers, Stoker, Jordan, Pollmann, & Fischer, 2011).

Education for Men: Preventing Exploitation Before It Happens

In addressing this issue, it is crucial to focus on preventative measures that can stop exploitation before it occurs. A vital part of this prevention is education. Boys and young men need to be educated early on about the legal and moral consequences of impregnating underage girls. This education should go beyond basic sex education and emphasize the importance of consent, healthy relationships, and the severe consequences of engaging in relationships with minors.

Boys need to understand that exploitation is not only harmful but also punishable by law. By educating young men about these issues, we can foster a culture where sexual exploitation of minors is less likely to occur. Such education can promote respect for boundaries and healthy relationship dynamics, ultimately helping to prevent predatory behavior (Haines & Joffe, 2013).

The Sexualization of Women and Girls in American Culture

The sexualization of women, and especially girls, is embedded in American culture due to the patriarchal structure of society. Media, advertising, and pop culture often portray women and girls as sexual objects, reinforcing the idea that their value is tied to their sexual appeal and appearance. These normalized portrayals of sexual objectification contribute to a societal environment where older men may feel entitled to manipulate or exploit young girls, especially when they view them as available or desirable.

Studies have shown that the sexualization of young girls in the media contributes to the normalization of harmful behaviors toward them. The American Psychological Association (APA, 2007) found that the portrayal of sexualized images of girls in the media negatively impacts their body image, self-esteem, and mental health. Such portrayals create an environment in which young girls are seen as commodities, making it easier for older men to justify their actions of exploitation.

Reproductive Justice and the Need for Stronger Policy

From a feminist perspective, the current state of reproductive rights and protections for young girls is deeply inadequate. Reproductive justice goes beyond the right to abortion and includes the right to live free from violence, coercion, and exploitation. For ethnic minority girls who become pregnant as a result of relationships with older men, this means not only ensuring access to safe and legal abortion services but also strengthening laws to protect these girls from sexual exploitation and abuse.

To achieve reproductive justice, stronger policies are needed to protect young girls from older men who prey on their vulnerability. This includes implementing and enforcing stricter age-of-consent laws, imposing harsher penalties for sexual exploitation, and providing more resources for minors to report abuse and seek help without fear of judgment or retribution. Furthermore, policymakers must ensure that all young women, especially those in marginalized communities, have access to comprehensive sex education, reproductive healthcare, and abortion services (Silliman, Fried, Ross, & Gurr, 2004).

Conclusion

The issue of teenage pregnancy, especially when involving older men, reflects entrenched gender and racial inequalities that limit the autonomy and future opportunities of young girls. The overturn of Roe v. Wade and increasing restrictions on abortion access only exacerbate these challenges, especially for ethnic minority girls who already face significant barriers to healthcare. Additionally, weak policies addressing older men who impregnate preteen girls and the normalization of the sexualization of young girls in American culture contribute to a cycle of exploitation that needs urgent reform.

To move toward true reproductive justice, policies must be reformed to provide stronger protections for young girls, particularly those in marginalized communities. This includes strengthening laws against sexual exploitation, educating young men about the consequences of exploiting minors, ensuring access to reproductive healthcare, and providing comprehensive education and support services for young women. Through these efforts, we can ensure that young girls—regardless of their ethnicity or socioeconomic status—have the opportunity to make informed, autonomous decisions about their bodies and futures.

References

American Psychological Association. (2007). Report of the APA task force on the sexualization of girls. American Psychological Association.

Boden, J. M., Fergusson, D. M., & Horwood, L. J. (2010). Early motherhood and subsequent life outcomes. Journal of Child Psychology and Psychiatry, 51(2), 167-175. https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1469-7610.2009.02191.x

Guttmacher Institute. (2022). Abortion policy in the United States. https://www.guttmacher.org/state-policy

Haines, D., & Joffe, C. (2013). The case for early interventions in preventing sexual violence. American Journal of Public Health, 103(9), 1641-1647. https://doi.org/10.2105/AJPH.2013.301299

Lammers, J., Stoker, J. I., Jordan, J., Pollmann, M., & Fischer, A. H. (2011). Power increases infidelity among men and women. Psychological Science, 22(9), 1191-1197. https://doi.org/10.1177/0956797611416253

Manlove, J., Papillo, A. R., & Ikramullah, E. (2004). The impact of male involvement on adolescent pregnancies and births: A review of the literature. Child Trends. https://www.childtrends.org/publications/the-impact-of-male-involvement-on-adolescent-pregnancies-and-births-a-review-of-the-literature

Silliman, J., Fried, A., Ross, L., & Gurr, L. (2004). Undivided rights: Women of color organize for reproductive justice. South End Press.

Reflections on My Upcoming Semester at Elgin High School

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On December 11, 2024

In teaching

Next semester marks an exciting and pivotal chapter in my journey to becoming a teacher. I’ll be student teaching at Elgin High School, focusing on two distinct yet equally fascinating subjects: U.S. History and International Baccalaureate (IB) Social and Cultural Anthropology. As I prepare to step into these roles, I feel a mixture of excitement, gratitude, and a strong sense of purpose.

Teaching U.S. History will give me the chance to delve into a subject that helps students connect past events to the world they live in today. History is more than dates and names; it’s a tool for critical thinking and understanding how the threads of time have shaped our society. I look forward to engaging students in dynamic discussions, connecting historical events to current issues, and sparking their curiosity about the complexities of the past.

The opportunity to teach IB Social and Cultural Anthropology, however, feels particularly special. Anthropology has been a cornerstone of my academic and personal life, and this will likely be the only chance I have to bring my passion for the subject into a high school classroom. Anthropology encourages students to explore human diversity, question cultural assumptions, and see the world through new lenses. I am thrilled to share this perspective with the next generation, helping them navigate our increasingly interconnected and complex global society.

Looking beyond the upcoming semester, I am cautiously optimistic about securing a teaching position for the 2025-26 school year. While I feel confident in my skills and passion for teaching, I can’t help but wonder if having two master’s degrees—an MA in anthropology and an MAT in secondary education—might make me seem overqualified in some districts. It’s a concern I’ve reflected on as I consider how to best position myself as a candidate who is eager to make a meaningful impact in the classroom.

For now, I’m focused on making the most of this upcoming semester. I know it will be a period of growth, challenges, and incredible opportunities. With the support of my mentors and the vibrant community at Elgin High School, I’m ready to embrace every moment and step confidently into this next phase of my teaching career—hopeful that it will lead to a fulfilling role in education for years to come.

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