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Faithful to the Rams Since Childhood

When I think back to 1980, a year filled with iconic cultural moments and personal milestones, one event stands out vividly in my memory: Super Bowl XIV. On that day, January 20, 1980, the Los Angeles Rams squared off against the Pittsburgh Steelers in a showdown that cemented my lifelong fandom for the Rams.

I was nine years old at the time and didn’t know too much about the game itself, but it was thrilling to watch. The Rams entered the Super Bowl as the underdogs, facing off against a dynasty. The Steelers, led by Terry Bradshaw, were going for their fourth championship in six years. Meanwhile, the Rams had clawed their way to the big game for the first time in franchise history, showcasing grit and determination. Their resilience mirrored something in me—a belief that with heart and hard work, anything was possible.

That game was a rollercoaster of emotions. I remember watching Vince Ferragamo, the Rams’ quarterback, defy expectations with his poise and precision. There was a moment in the third quarter when it felt like the Rams might actually pull it off. Ferragamo connected with Billy Waddy for a 50-yard pass, setting up a touchdown that put the Rams ahead. My heart soared. For those fleeting moments, it seemed as if the impossible was within reach.

But as the fourth quarter unfolded, the Steelers’ experience and star power took over. Lynn Swann and John Stallworth made spectacular plays, and the Rams’ defense, which had fought valiantly, couldn’t hold off Bradshaw and his offense forever. The final score, 31-19, didn’t tell the whole story. The Rams had played with courage and passion, and their underdog spirit had won me over completely.

As a Rams fan living in Chicagoland, my devotion to the team has always set me apart. In a region dominated by Bears fans, I’ve proudly worn my Rams gear and cheered them on through thick and thin. The 1980s were an especially intriguing era to follow the team. Although the Rams didn’t make it back to the Super Bowl during that decade, they were consistently competitive, making the playoffs nearly every year under head coach John Robinson.

I admired players like Eric Dickerson, whose electrifying runs made him one of the greatest running backs of all time. His 1984 season, when he set the single-season rushing record with 2,105 yards, remains one of the most remarkable individual performances in NFL history. The Rams’ defense, nicknamed the “Fearsome Foursome” in earlier eras, continued to be a force, anchored by players like Jack Youngblood and Nolan Cromwell.

Despite their success, the Rams often found themselves just short of the ultimate prize. Heartbreaking playoff losses to teams like the Chicago Bears and the San Francisco 49ers defined much of the decade. Yet, their persistence and ability to rebuild year after year only deepened my admiration for the team. Even from afar, I felt a connection to their determination and grit, traits that resonated with me as I navigated life in the Midwest.

When the team moved to St. Louis in 1995, I was excited about the opportunity to have them closer geographically. While they were based in St. Louis, I made it a point to attend at least one game every season. Those trips were special—a chance to see my team in person and connect with other fans. Watching the Rams grow into a powerhouse during the late 1990s was exhilarating. The 1999 season, when they earned the nickname “The Greatest Show on Turf,” was nothing short of magical. Led by Kurt Warner, Marshall Faulk, and Isaac Bruce, the Rams had one of the most explosive offenses in NFL history. Their Super Bowl XXXIV victory over the Tennessee Titans was unforgettable, especially that final defensive stand that sealed the win.

Even during the lean years that followed, my loyalty to the team never wavered. The sense of community I felt attending games in St. Louis was unmatched, and those moments remain some of my favorite memories as a fan.

Their move back to LA in 2016 changed things for me logistically, but my passion for the team remains as strong as ever. It is my hope to one day see a game at their current stadium, SoFi Stadium, and experience the energy of the Rams’ home crowd once again.

Today, I look back on that day in 1980 with gratitude. Super Bowl XIV wasn’t just the beginning of my love for the Rams; it was the start of a lifelong relationship with football, a sport that has brought me community, connection, and countless memories. The Rams taught me that even in defeat, there is honor in giving your all and leaving it all on the field. And for that, I’ll always be grateful.

WNBA New Collective Bargaining Agreement

Yesterday the WNBPA and the WNBA reached a historic agreement that included a 50-50 revenue sharing. This puts it on par with how the NBA is structured.

Travel has always been a problem as well. Although they won’t be traveling via chartered flights as the do in the NBA, they will be now flying in premium economy class on commercial airlines. They also will not be sharing hotel rooms with other players with each player getting her own room. There has been problems with getting to games at a reasonable time.

The following are the key elements in the new 2020 WNBA-WNBPA Collective Bargaining Agreement:

Additional cash compensation elements:

– Minimum of $1.6 million in off-season league and team marketing agreements, that both recognize top performance and highlight the diversity of the league, and would create up to $300,000 in additional annual cash compensation for select players.
– Minimum of $750,000 in prize money for special competitions beginning with the 2021 season.
– New 50-50 revenue sharing beginning with the 2021 season, based on the league achieving revenue growth targets from broadcast agreements, marketing partnerships and licensing deals.
– Increases in cash bonuses for performance awards (such as for WNBA MVP and Rookie of the Year), and newly created cash bonuses (such as for each player named to the WNBA All-Defensive First Team).

Quality of travel elements:

– Premium Economy class status (such as Comfort/Economy Plus) for all players for regular-season air travel.
– Individual hotel room accommodations for every player.
– A collaborative effort to address travel concerns through the Player Advisory Panel.

Motherhood and family planning elements:

– Players to receive full salary while on maternity leave.
– A new annual childcare stipend of $5,000.
– Two-bedroom apartments for players with children.
– Workplace accommodations that provide a comfortable, safe and private place for nursing mothers.
– New, progressive family planning benefits of up to a $60,000 reimbursement for veteran players for costs directly related to adoption, surrogacy, oocyte cryopreservation or fertility/infertility treatment.

Free agency elements

– Unrestricted free agency available to players one year earlier than under the prior agreement beginning with the free agency period leading up to the 2021 season. Specifically, players who complete the playing services called for in their contract and have five or more years of service will become unrestricted free agents (if they are not designated as a “Core” player).
– Reduction in the number of times a player can receive the “Core” designation – from four to three beginning with the 2020 season, dropping to two beginning with the 2022 season.

Career development and other quality of life elements:

– The WNBA will work with its affiliated leagues, teams and sponsors to provide off-season job opportunities designed to prepare players for their post-playing careers and will advance diversity in coaching initiatives for veteran players interested in coaching careers.
– Enhanced mental health benefits and resources.
– An augmented and holistic domestic/intimate partner violence program that includes education and counseling.
– A joint Nutrition Council committed to identifying resources and address proper nutrition to optimize athletic performance.
– Access to experts in women’s health and representation on league policy committees.

St. Louis Rams show support for Ferguson

Members of the Rams’ receiving corps show their support for the Ferguson protestors.

On Sunday during the introductions of the Rams players for the Rams-Raiders game at the Edward Jones Dome in Saint Louis, Stedman Bailey, Tavon Austin, Jared Cook, Chris Givens and Kenny Britt entered the field with their hands up in the air. The gesture was used to show solidarity with the Ferguson protestors. Since the August 9, 2014 shooting of Michael Brown, protestors have been using the rallying cry “hands up, don’t shot” while raising their hands up in the air in a surrender gesture. It is intended to send the message of how law enforcement are mistreating young African-American males by assuming that they are a threat because of their ethnicity and gender.

As a life long Rams fan, I was moved by the gesture of solidarity. It showed how much the Rams, or at least these five players with the Rams organization, care about the Ferguson community. During the 2014 NFL Draft, the Rams made the bold move to draft Michael Sam, making him the first openly gay American football player with the NFL. The Rams are keeping in stride with positive social change by showing that they are against racial profiling. The gesture also reminded me a lot of the 1968 Summer Olympics Black Power salute done by Tommie Smith and John Carlos during their medal ceremony.

It didn’t surprise me to read comments by other Ram fans on social media who were against it. In fact the Time OUT Sports Bar & Grill in Saint Louis are boycotting the Rams over it and turning their support to the Kansas City Chiefs. It saddens me when people take an act that is trying to draw attention to social injustices and then turn it around and make it look like the person drawing the attention to these facts are the violent ones.

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