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Bad Bunny, the Super Bowl, and the Politics of Identity

SANTA CLARA, CALIFORNIA – FEBRUARY 08: Bad Bunny performs onstage during the Apple Music Super Bowl LX Halftime Show at Levi’s Stadium on February 08, 2026 in Santa Clara, California. (Photo by Thearon W. Henderson/Getty Images)

The 2026 Super Bowl halftime show, headlined by Bad Bunny, quickly became one of the most culturally and politically charged performances in recent memory. Announced months in advance as the featured performer, Bad Bunny’s selection already signaled a shift in the NFL’s cultural positioning, reflecting the growing influence of Latino audiences in American media (CBS News, 2026). When he ultimately took the stage, performing largely in Spanish and centering Puerto Rican identity, the symbolism was unmistakable.

The performance was widely interpreted not just as entertainment, but as cultural assertion. Spanish-language lyrics dominated the set, and the staging highlighted themes of Latino pride, resilience, and collective identity. El País (2026) described the show as a “protest dance,” suggesting that the performance functioned as a statement of presence in a political climate often marked by contentious immigration debates and nationalist rhetoric. Rather than presenting overt political slogans, the symbolism operated through visibility: Latino culture on the largest televised stage in the United States.

To me, that is what made the performance powerful. It was not aggressive. It did not attack policy. It celebrated identity. The choice to foreground Spanish was not exclusionary—it was reflective of the lived reality of millions of Americans. In a country where Spanish is the second most spoken language, hearing it dominate the halftime stage felt less like disruption and more like acknowledgment. Representation, in this case, became a form of quiet resistance.

President Donald Trump responded sharply. According to ABC News (2026), Trump called the halftime show a “slap in the face to our country.” Reuters (2026) reported that he described the performance as “absolutely terrible,” while People (2026) noted his criticism that “nobody understands a word this guy is saying.” His reaction framed the performance not as a cultural celebration but as a deviation from traditional American norms.

The criticism did not stop with the President. Entertainment Weekly (2026) reported that House Republicans called for an investigation into the halftime show, citing concerns over its choreography and presentation. The backlash extended beyond language into broader anxieties about morality, cultural standards, and national identity. Meanwhile, reactions were far from uniformly negative. The Guardian (2026) documented widespread praise from artists and public figures who described the performance as joyful and affirming, with some viewers saying it made them feel “proudly American.”

That divide reveals something significant. The controversy was not really about music or choreography. It was about competing visions of America. One vision views national identity as rooted in linguistic and cultural uniformity. The other sees American identity as evolving, multilingual, and shaped by migration and diversity. Bad Bunny’s performance fell squarely into the latter camp.

In my view, the halftime show reflected the America that already exists rather than the one some political leaders nostalgically imagine. A multilingual performance on the Super Bowl stage does not diminish American identity—it expands it. Cultural confidence means embracing diversity, not fearing it. The polarized reaction to the show underscores how entertainment events have become symbolic arenas where broader political tensions play out.

Ultimately, the 2026 Super Bowl halftime show was more than a concert. It was a cultural mirror. Whether one saw it as celebratory or confrontational depended largely on how one defines Americanness itself. The performance—and the reaction from President Trump—demonstrates that debates over language, culture, and belonging remain central to American political life.

References

ABC News. (2026). Trump calls Bad Bunny’s Super Bowl halftime show a “slap in the face to our country.” https://abcnews.go.com/US/trump-calls-bad-bunnys-super-bowl-halftime-show/story?id=129980124

CBS News. (2026). Bad Bunny will headline the 2026 Super Bowl halftime show. https://www.cbsnews.com/news/bad-bunny-2026-super-bowl-halftime-show/

El País. (2026, February 8). Bad Bunny’s Super Bowl: The protest dance of Latinos in the US. https://english.elpais.com/culture/2026-02-08/bad-bunnys-super-bowl-the-protest-dance-of-latinos-in-the-us.html

Entertainment Weekly. (2026). House Republicans call to investigate Bad Bunny Super Bowl halftime show over “widespread twerking, grinding, pelvic thrusts.” https://ew.com/house-republicans-call-for-investigation-of-bad-bunny-super-bowl-halftime-show-11904174

People. (2026). Trump lashes out at Bad Bunny’s Super Bowl halftime show: “Nobody understands a word this guy is saying.” https://people.com/super-bowl-2026-trump-lashes-out-bad-bunny-halftime-show-11902396

Reuters. (2026, February 9). Trump says Bad Bunny’s Super Bowl halftime was “absolutely terrible.” https://www.reuters.com/world/us/trump-says-bad-bunnys-super-bowl-halftime-show-was-absolutely-terrible-2026-02-09/

The Guardian. (2026, February 9). “Made me feel proudly American”: Stars react to Bad Bunny’s Super Bowl show. https://www.theguardian.com/music/2026/feb/09/reactions-bad-bunny-super-bowl-halftime-show

Sex Toys on the Court: Misogyny in the WNBA

COLLEGE PARK, GEORGIA – JULY 29: Jordin Canada #3 of the Atlanta Dream drives against Carla Leite #0 of the Golden State Valkyries during the second quarter at Gateway Center Arena on July 29, 2025 in College Park, Georgia. (Photo by Kevin C. Cox/Getty Images)

During several WNBA games in the summer of 2025, a disturbing trend emerged: spectators began throwing sex toys onto the court, disrupting play and creating unsafe and degrading conditions for players and fans. The first widely reported incident occurred on July 29, 2025, during a matchup between the Atlanta Dream and the Golden State Valkyries, when a lime-green dildo landed on the court and halted the game (Glamour, 2025; Washington Post, 2025). In the weeks that followed, similar disruptions occurred in Chicago, Los Angeles, Phoenix, and New York, with at least six games affected despite arrests and increased security measures (Andscape, 2025). One incident in New York nearly struck a 12-year-old spectator, underscoring the physical danger posed by these objects (New York Post, 2025).

Law enforcement identified and arrested several individuals connected to the incidents. Delbert Carver, 23, was arrested in connection with the initial Atlanta game disruption, while 18-year-old Kaden Lopez was arrested in Phoenix after striking a man and his 9-year-old niece with a thrown sex toy (Washington Post, 2025; Them, 2025). Both claimed their actions were impulsive pranks. Later, a cryptocurrency meme-coin group took credit for orchestrating the stunts as a promotional gimmick for “Green Dildo Coin” (ESPN, 2025).

While some online commentators framed the events as harmless or absurd, such interpretations ignore the deeper implications. WNBA athletes already contend with systemic bias and underrepresentation in sports media. By introducing an explicitly sexual object into their workplace, these incidents reinforce the sexualization of female athletes and minimize their professional achievements, reducing them to objects of ridicule and harassment. Cheryl Reeve, coach of the Minnesota Lynx, criticized the acts as “the latest version” of the ongoing sexualization of women in sports (Global News, 2025). Andscape’s coverage was even more direct, framing the behavior as a perpetuation of rape culture, noting that a man throwing a phallic object at a women’s sporting event is not comedy but an assertion of dominance (Andscape, 2025).

The incidents also illustrate the interplay between misogyny, viral marketing, and meme culture. In an era where online clout often outweighs human decency, such stunts are engineered for virality rather than protest, turning women’s sports into backdrops for digital spectacle (The Guardian, 2025). As the WNBA experiences rising popularity and visibility, with athletes like Sophie Cunningham drawing growing attention, the behavior can also be seen as a reactionary attempt to undermine women’s empowerment (Glamour, 2025).

Ultimately, these disruptions are not harmless pranks but acts of harassment that threaten both the safety and dignity of athletes and spectators. They signal the persistence of a culture that devalues women’s athletic accomplishments and views women’s bodies as fair game for public ridicule. Respect for female athletes must be non-negotiable, and addressing this behavior requires a collective response from leagues, security personnel, media, and fans to ensure that the court remains a space for competition, not degradation.

References

Andscape. (2025, August 8). Sex toys on the court? This is about more than the WNBA. Andscape. https://andscape.com/features/wnba-sex-toys-on-court/

ESPN. (2025, August 7). Crypto group says it orchestrated WNBA sex toy tosses. ESPN. https://www.espn.com/wnba/story/_/id/45923322/crypto-group-says-orchestrated-sex-toy-tosses-wnba-games

Glamour. (2025, August 8). Throwing dildos at WNBA games has become a trend. We need to talk about it. Glamour. https://www.glamour.com/story/throwing-dildos-wnba-games-trend

Global News. (2025, August 9). WNBA sex toys thrown on court: Coach calls it latest sexualization of women. Global News. https://globalnews.ca/news/11323758/wnba-sex-toys-thrown-on-court-crypto/

New York Post. (2025, August 8). More sex toys thrown during Sky-Dream game despite recent arrests: “It’s dumb.” New York Post. https://nypost.com/2025/08/08/sports/more-sex-toys-thrown-during-sky-dream-game-despite-recent-arrests/

The Guardian. (2025, August 8). WNBA sex toy throwing shows meme culture’s shameful collapse. The Guardian. https://www.theguardian.com/sport/2025/aug/08/wnba-sex-toy-throwing-meme-culture-shame-collapse

Them. (2025, August 6). Man arrested after throwing sex toy at WNBA game. Them. https://www.them.us/story/wnba-dildo-atlanta-dream

Washington Post. (2025, August 9). How a sex toy meme-coin hijacked the WNBA. The Washington Post. https://www.washingtonpost.com/sports/2025/08/09/wnba-sex-toys-crypto-meme-coin-timeline/

The Legacy I Hope to Leave Behind

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Legacy is not built all at once. It takes shape over time—quietly, unevenly—through the choices we make, the truths we speak, and the lives we touch. I don’t imagine mine will be written in bold headlines or etched into stone. But I hope it will be felt in subtler, more enduring ways. In the freedom someone claims because I once stood up. In the insight sparked by something I taught or wrote. In the love that lingers in the spaces I leave behind.

I’ve lived many chapters in this life—some of them linear, others far more tangled. I began as a student of anthropology, drawn to the study of culture, meaning, and human complexity. It taught me to listen deeply, to question what seems natural, and to honor what is often ignored or devalued. Anthropology gave me not just tools for understanding others—it gave me a way to understand myself. As a transgender woman, as a spiritual seeker, as someone shaped by forces both seen and hidden, I learned to situate my life within broader currents of history and identity. That perspective never left me.

Eventually, I put my education into service in a different way—as a SNAP program specialist with the USDA. There, I saw how policy lives not in abstract theories but in the faces of people trying to feed their families. I worked at the intersection of administration and survival. It gave me a profound respect for the dignity of everyday life, and a deepened sense of duty to advocate for those so often silenced by red tape and economic cruelty. That role grounded me in the real: in food, in need, in systems and the people caught within them.

But even before all of that, I served my country in uniform. I am a U.S. Navy veteran. I served as a submariner and fought in Desert Storm. It was a life of discipline, of structure, of submerged tension—both literal and emotional. That chapter gave me a close relationship with mortality, with silence, with sacrifice. And later, it gave me the courage to live my truth. Because once you’ve survived war, you learn how little time there really is for pretending.

Though my time teaching in a classroom was brief, it was profoundly meaningful. Education, I believe, is one of the most radical forms of love and hope. I did not stay long enough to become a fixture, but I hope I was a spark. I hope that somewhere, a student remembers me not as perfect, but as present. As someone who saw them clearly, challenged them to think differently, and held space for who they were becoming.

Throughout it all, I’ve remained a writer, a creator, a witness. I write not just to tell stories, but to make space—for desire, for defiance, for complex and beautiful lives that rarely make it into the mainstream. I write for those on the margins, for the ones building new worlds from the ruins of the old, and for the future selves who need proof that we were here.

If I am remembered, I hope it is as someone who lived with fierce honesty. Who loved without shame. Who fought for justice, even when she was exhausted. Who stood in her womanhood and her queerness not as burdens, but as blessings.

I hope my legacy is not one of perfection, but of permission. Permission to live. To change. To desire. To dream beyond the roles assigned at birth or by circumstance. I hope I leave behind courage in those who need it. Gentleness in those taught to harden. Fire in those told to shrink.

And if some future soul—browsing an archive, reading a quote, hearing a story—finds a piece of me and thinks, “Because she lived, I feel less alone,” then that is all the immortality I will ever need.

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